Friends

Yesterday I posted about how Communication is Key.  But do you ever find that sometimes trying to communicate with someone is hard to do.  I have some friends at work, and today for some reason it seemed that maybe we aren’t the friends that we once were.  We used to call ourselves the “Sex in the City” group at work, because we were kinda like that.  We shared our troubles, our joys, we laughed, we cried.  And today when I looked at my friends I felt such disconnect from the other two.  Do I approach them and find out if there’s a problem, or do I let them approach the situation.  That’s a hard question.  Then I started thinking about my thoughts yesterday about communication and how it’s key to any relationship.  Do I think things have changed between us, maybe,because our lives have been so busy with change in work status and responsibilities, things going on in our lives.  (These are all things we used to talk about)  Now we say hello and good morning, how was your weekend and every now and then we’ll think about something that was mentioned days or even weeks ago and maybe we ask how things are going with that.  Way different than we used to be. How do we get back to the way things were?  That’s my next challenge.  I think tomorrow I’ll talk to the one who’s going to be at work and then next week speak to the other.  When you have close relationships and then they fade, you can tend to feel lonely inside to have it back.  Right now I feel lonely for their friendship and will take the initative to try to get it back.  I’ll communicate my thoughts and hopefully we can get “Sex in the City” back. 

Lesson here:  I guess would be don’t let things get to the point of no return.